I recently read an article by well-known author Chetan
Bhagat, condemning the state of women in our country. He implored his fellow
countrymen to look beyond the phulkas and
understand the contribution women can make to the society. Then there is this
famous writer and feminist who has been imploring women to get on beyond the
kitchen and explore other avenues. And then we have this famous actor, pulling
up men for the atrocities committed against women.
I recently read about a very dynamic lady in Gujarat who had
turned her backyard dairy into a full-fledged business worth crores of rupees.
Has she moved beyond the kitchen? Probably not. I am sure her family still
enjoys the wonderful meals she cooks up for them every day. I have a colleague
who makes wonderful paranthas and
gets them in the tiffin every day. And the appreciation, she says, inspires her
more to try out new recipes. Has she moved on beyond the kitchen? I wonder.
If women like cooking (which in most cases they do) why are
we forcing them to move on? Everyone wants a piece of the pie in the advice for
women. Everyone wants them to do this and do that. Some want them to work; some
want them to look beyond child rearing and other want them to move beyond the
kitchen. All of the above are basic qualities which all women have in them. And
if they want to and like to be able to continue doing so, why force them to
stop doing what comes naturally?